What you need to know about parental alienation
In an acrimonious divorce or separation, it is not uncommon for one parent to act or speak less favourably about the other parent in attempt to turn their children against them. This is known as ‘parental alienation’ and is recognised by the courts.
In this article our Partner and Head of Family Law, Noelle Heath explains everything you need to know about parental alienation.
What is parental alienation?
Although there is no legal definition of parental alienation, it generally refers to when a child is resisting or refusing to spend time with one parent without justification and this stems from psychological manipulation of the child by the other parent.
What are the signs of parental alienation?
Over the years, the Courts, Cafcass and family law professionals have recognised a range of behaviours which can be considered to be parental alienation. If a parent is concerned that their child may be affected by alienation, they should look out for their child displaying the following signs :
- Expressing an unjustified negative opinion about one parent, which could also extend to the parent’s wider family.
- Unreasonable reactions to a parent’s behaviour.
- Having irrational reasons to account for disliking a parent.
- Erasing positive memories of time spent with a parent.
- Using mature language when explaining negativity towards a parent.
- Lack of remorse for hurting a parent’s feelings.
- Siding with the favoured parent despite anything they say or do.
What can I do to prevent parental alienation?
Unfortunately, there is not a lot that you can do to prevent parental alienation. However, if you think your child has become alienated from you, you should try your best to mitigate the impact it will have on both you and your child.
Parental alienation can have a significant impact on a child and the parent. The following steps could help minimise the impact it could have:
- Try and maintain a positive and loving relationship with your child.
- Manage your emotional reaction to the behaviour.
- Try speaking with the other parent about the behaviours you have noticed.
- Consider seeking advice from a Divorce and Family Law Solicitor.
What should I do if I’m being alienated by the other parent?
You should keep a record of the other parent’s behaviour and consider seeking advice from a specialist divorce and family law solicitor.
How can Morrish Solicitors help?
Morrish Solicitors have a team of experienced divorce and family law solicitors who can assist on parental alienation cases. Our solicitors can offer clear, confidential, and professional advice on your situation. Contact us today on 033 3344 9600 or simply email [email protected] with your request.
Author: Noelle Health, family law.
